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The Unanswered 'Why'
Why do bad things happen to good people? Why does a kind, loving, and generous person like my Mom have Alzheimer's? Why, of all people,...
Apr 282 min read


The Longest Goodbye
I’m not losing you once, I’m losing pieces of you every day as this disease relentlessly takes you from me, from all who love you. I’ve...
Feb 262 min read


You Are Loved
Truthfully, I’m not a fan of Valentine’s Day. It’s not that I am against love (quite the opposite!), I just prefer to show it in quieter,...
Feb 132 min read


A Cherished Moment
Pictured here are my son and my Mom. A 12-year-old boy, full of life, laughter, and curiosity—sometimes unsure how to act or what to say...
Feb 112 min read


Hold Onto Hope
Hope is a fleeting sensation of joy, gratitude, and love that flits and flutters like a butterfly in the pit of your stomach. Hope is a...
Feb 101 min read


Mom, Please Tell Me
Mom, Tell me everything is going to be alright. Tell me you’re proud of me. Tell me how you’re doing. Tell me you’re thinking about me....
Feb 81 min read


The Magic of My Mom's Laugh
You know how some people have a laugh that sticks with you? My mom is one of those people. Her laugh is truly infectious. The kind of...
Feb 81 min read


Your Legacy Lives On
You are forever my Mother, and I am forever your daughter. As much as this disease tries to steal, as much as it tries to challenge and...
Feb 22 min read


If She Had a Choice
I’ve often caught myself saying things like, 'My mom doesn’t know who I am,' or ‘She no longer recognizes me’ when people ask about...
Jan 222 min read


The Ones Who Stay
In the wake of my Mother's Alzheimer's diagnosis, several friends and even family members, quietly fade into the background. While we...
Jan 152 min read


This is Grief
In the quiet, my grief visits me. It bangs on the door of my heart, leaving bumps and bruises in its wake. It holds up a mirror to my...
Jan 102 min read


The Brightest Star
I can still see you in the stars. Your radiant light, a diamond in the endless night sky, assuring me of your presence from the heavens...
Jan 61 min read


Together Again
You came to me in a dream. Or was it a dream? It felt so real. You appeared out of nowhere like a wondrous mirage — my beautiful Mom...
Jan 52 min read


A New Year's Wish for Heavy Hearts
I hope 2025 gently takes your hand, cradles your weary heart, and offers you the space to just breathe. I hope it transforms your wounds...
Jan 11 min read


After the Funeral
When the funeral ends and the world moves on, don't forget about the one who is grieving. It is in this space of the “after” where normal...
Dec 31, 20242 min read


When Grace Shines Through
My Mom couldn’t tell me she was scared, but I could read it on her face. The worry, the fear, shown clearly in her eyes. Just days before...
Dec 28, 20242 min read


When Silence Speaks
Sometimes in grief, the silent moments are the loudest. When the world quiets, grief awakens. In the space of solitude, it finds its...
Dec 27, 20241 min read


Angels Among Us
There are angels among us. These beautiful spirits travel amidst us each day, leaving signs of their presence and love. And though we...
Dec 22, 20242 min read


May Your Soul Fly Free
Mom, Alzheimer's has held you physically captive here on earth, while taking all the beautiful parts of you - your memories, your words,...
Dec 18, 20242 min read


Where There is Hope
Where there is joy and laughter, there is hope. Where there is belonging and community, there is hope. Where there is a grateful heart,...
Dec 11, 20241 min read
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