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A Legacy of Community & Connection
Mom, you had a natural gift for bringing people together and creating meaningful, lasting bonds. You made others feel seen and heard,...
Oct 1, 20241 min read


She's Still with You, Buddy
"Does Nana know who I am?" Your question landed on my heart like a powerful punch. Overtaken by sadness, I turned away for a brief second...
Sep 25, 20242 min read


Embracing Your Grief
There is not a right or a wrong way to grieve. There is only your way. You may grieve freely and openly. You may grieve silently and...
Sep 24, 20241 min read


Your Legacy, Your Light
Mom, I wear a smile when I visit you in Memory Care, but beneath my smile lies a layer of sadness I cannot fully hide. I try my best to...
Sep 20, 20242 min read


The Sea of Grief
The vast sea of grief roars in without warning and ruthlessly consumes you. You try to resist, you try to fight, but the turbulent waves...
Sep 17, 20242 min read


Say It Now
The kind and loving words that have been sitting on your heart, it’s time to release them into the world. People need to hear them. Your...
Sep 14, 20241 min read


I Carry You With Me
I miss you in the soft glow of a new morning. I miss you in the depths of an endless dark night. I miss you in the chaos and noise of...
Sep 10, 20242 min read


Always With Me
Escaping the weight of the world and the constant noise in my mind, I find a seat outside and soak in the golden brilliance of the...
Aug 28, 20242 min read


A Companion in Grief
Take off the mask you’re wearing, friend. The mask that shows a happy face. You don’t need to wear it around me. You must be tired from...
Aug 26, 20242 min read


Caregiving & The Long Road Ahead
As Mom’s Alzheimer’s disease progressed, Dad became her caregiver, dedicating himself to her safety and wellbeing. He took on the role...
Aug 22, 20242 min read


From Darkness to Light
The wave of sadness and emptiness hits hard, knocking you off balance and scraping away your layers until you are just a lifeless shell...
Aug 21, 20242 min read


My Mother, My Lighthouse
My mom had a love for the beauty and majesty of lighthouses. She collected lighthouse trinkets and artwork of these structures in all...
Aug 20, 20242 min read


Yearning for Yesterday
When I see adult daughters with their mothers, my heart swells with joy and simultaneously aches with sadness. I long for what they have,...
Aug 16, 20241 min read


Seasons of Growth
My son starts 7th grade tomorrow. I’m not sure how that’s possible. This summer flew by. It always does but this time around it...
Aug 6, 20241 min read


Until We Meet Again, Mom
Mom, I pray to the stars that someday somewhere we pick up where we left off… Before the Alzheimer’s diagnosis… Before your life, my life...
Jul 29, 20241 min read


The Way Through
Sometimes the pain of grief is so intense I don’t know what to do with it. I don’t know how to go about my day when the weight of...
Jul 28, 20242 min read


Finding Peace in the Rain
I lay in bed listening to the rain falling outside my window. Like a baby being rocked to sleep, I am hypnotized by the soothing sounds...
Jul 24, 20241 min read


A Newfound Purpose
Mom, you took care of Dad for so long. As his loving and supportive wife, you were always there for him. Now the tables have turned, and...
Jul 24, 20242 min read


Seeing Life Through my Son's Eyes
Need a quick pick-me-up? Experience life through the eyes of a child. This is my son leading me on a tour of a Cincinnati Bengals...
Jul 23, 20242 min read


The Uncharted Path of Grief
Grief does not follow a linear path. It zigs and it zags, and it comes to an abrupt stop. Then, out of nowhere, it crashes into you like...
Jul 20, 20242 min read
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